Hi Dolly,
  I'm sending you some of my biggest hugs, along with some possitve enrgy as well. Iknow you are grieving right now, I myself lost two, But when the time is right you will have at least another one. When you do get pregnant again, I want you to make sure that you follow this advice that i'm going to give you, Iknow it works that's how I got my three children that I have now;
1: Don't lift anything that you can't lift with one hand
2: Get someone else to do the sweeping and mopping ,as that works the all the stomach muscles
3: Make absolutely sure that you eat right, and that you eat at least 3 to 4 fairly meals a day:
4: Take your vitamins, including folic acid, every day

Good luck!
Lots hugs
May you be blessed