Sending a BIG HUG your way...
I have often wondered how families can fight over seemingly trivial things. I refuse to do so in my own family although it is perhaps percieved as not standing up for myself. I don't care, I won't be a part of it. Perhaps you can be the first one to show some signs of forgiveness? But I have a feeling you are probably like me and aren't any part of it anyway. Just watching from the sidelines as everyone else makes a mess of things. Good luck to you and God bless you and your family!!!!