Hi to all readers of the forum. this is srinivas (Usually people are calling me unlucky) i am 28 years guy from India. i need a hug and solution to my problem.here i am not blaming any religion.so people don't think me negative.
Basically i am an Hindu from India. But i like Christianity and same my girl friend also on some week ends we also go to the church . very first i have to tell some thing which is not happened ever.The relation ship between me and my girl friend is a wrong relation i am cousin brother to her and she is a sister to me.but we are in love each other almost 7 years. we are not bothered (that day) about our relation ship.we cant live with out seeing each other everyday. and this comes to my parents notice they are shocked and scolded both of us. but finally they are almost convinced becoz we are in a such deep love .Its almost decided that we cant live separately.   but we never met physically it is great divine love. she is working in HSBC call center in india and i am a business man. but
One fine day she told me srinivas don't meet me from today onwards .i think our relationship is wrong i am not getting positive response while praying about  you in the church .i think this is not good.we are doing wrong. what a great illusion created by god (jesus) Dear readers we are basically hindus but suddenly she is converted in to a Christiane and she is telling me like this . i cant face the jesus if suppose i marry you.and she is telling me jesus is the only god. what is the realization after 7 years. my total life is ruined u know even i am not attend my final exams of my engineering degree,that day we both went to the shopping mall she needs to purchase some clothes.i failed in the final semester.there are lot of situations like this i spent my whole life to her .my mom she is also expired.
so people y she behaved like this suddenly. if it is not possible to marry in Christiane region then convert in to a Muslim i think it is not wrong in Muslims.then our relation ship is correct.then y ur not converted in to Muslim y ur converted in to a Christian. y u did this to me.
Is she got a better man than to me.?may be yes she is going to marry on jan 08 December 6 is her engagement.he is also a Hindu converting in to Christian.Is it love? how a women again can love other man after a long relation ship with me.i don't have answers. may be one day before her marriage i can commit suicide i cant see her with others.
finally tell me our relation ship is wrong? i did any thing wrong in my life?
how can convince her that she is doing wrong?
I am really sorry i am posted a very long problem and some people may not understand i am ready for the discursion i can tell my 7years love life.please respond to this issue.and post your valuble suggestions .i want make this issue big with the help of all people in the world.
she is working in HSBC call center Hyderabad,India branch. and i am dealing with medical equipments.
Thanking you again.

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Well Danny....you gave good advice advice....so now I can give the Hug

A big Grandpa hug to you both, you are both grown up....follow your heart....it is you two who shall live your life.....if you feel that your love can carry the "burden" from them around you....then do it...if you feel the burden can be to great....then you must look what is most important for you.....Not in the Religions way....but in those people who are important for you, if you later suffer to much from them...they might even destroy the greatest love.

Good luck to you both!

Prophet and Awatar (Divinity Incarnate) Jesus also known to some as Yeshu Masih was love incarnate. The only message that a *distant* observer like me from another country, culture, religion blah blah blah ... noted, received and wrote the following towards the end of my article cited after the quotation:

"After all, through true humility that can live only in an open heart, and eternal gratitude that shall never fail to awaken the soul, even a dingy little dark barn can prove to be glorious and welcoming enough to receive and house the Essence of God!"

Quoted from:
http://www.boloji.com/spirituality/003.htm

Rohiniranjan

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[quote="Danny"]As a baptized catholic I can tell you Jesus is not what people perceive him to be.  Power and politics have twisted facts into fiction.  As far as being with the woman you Love who is you're cousin it was quite acceptable for the Egyptian    Royal class to mate in such a manner.  The problem is that over time genetic flaws get amplified if this keeps taking place.  So go with you heart and don't let religious bullshit get in your way.  Go for it!!!! or regret not doing so for the rest of you're life.
Relatives may scoff at you but in the if you are both happy who has the last laugh?

Not a hug but I hope this helps.


Danny

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