I am going through a divorce.  Recently a man from my childhood contacted me through classmates.com.  We started communicating via email, text and phone calls.  Many old feelings were still there.  I went to visit him last week and we connected on so many levels it was unbelievable.  

The problem is that he is in Florida sharing custody of his 2 children and I am in Colorado doing the same.  I have had 2 tarot card readings in the recent past and the first showed my husband moving out and this other man and I in a relationship.  The most recent (just before my trip) showed I am on the right path and there were big changes on both the mental and physical plane.

All this is fine and good it's just that when we look for an answer to being together we can't see any, yet the cards and our horoscopes state otherwise.  

We have spent the last 18 years apart and want very much to be together we just don't know how!  I wish the answer was obvious.  Thanks for listening.

First of all let me begin with a big Grandpa hug since this is Hug section

Yea, life would have been nice if we could get answer on what happen in the future, but since all people have a free will, and you only can control your own, it might be an impossible task to do.

Since you are going true a divorce, you might again be open to new lasting relationships.
Since both of you have children to care for, the picture aren't that simple or straight forward as if it was only you two.

Since you both have shared custody, I would recommend that you put up a time frame where you both could be together without the kids, in order to explore if this was something to build more on. Many times we make ourself "pink castles" when we interact on the net, and most of the times they never live up to our expectations.

First when you have establish that you have something common and want to share it, will I introduce it to the children, which can be a great task in itself.

So in my opinion....the task is way to important to put your trust to any reading....use your common sense instead

Another big Grandpa hug and good luck to you all

I appreciate the response and hugs Rhutto.  After communicating for several months and feeling the connection, I went to see him in Florida last week because we both wanted/needed to know if there was a future to explore.  It was amazing.  Yes there is a future worth exploring.  I am as crazy about him as I was 18 years ago and vice versa.  We agree that we took the paths we did because we both had much growing to do and had we gotten together all those years ago it probably would not have worked as we were young and  ignorant.  Now that we are both older and wiser and have gone through troubled marriages we know what we want out of life and a partner.  I just wish distance was not such a factor.

Thank you again for the hugs and wise words.

here is a huge hug for u sweetie... much love and huggies

hugs hugs hugs n more hugs to you sweetie   lluvia