uggh where should i start. i started talking to my ex because i was freaking out, i thought i was pregnant with his baby. i was a couple weeks late and asked him if he remembers ANYTHING. he had too much on his mind thhe night we were together and really wasnt thinking. so that worried me a lot. he started helping me out telling me i should get an abortion and with all my heart i DID NOT want to get rid of this baby. but he admit he was getting selfish and wanted it. well i told him i started getting feelings for him now and he got mad and said i shouldve stopped when i got them. well half an hour later he responded back saying that he was keeping distance from me because he does have feelings for me still but im not 18.

well i was so happy that day...i was talkative, i was laughing, i didnt have that gut feeling again. Like all girls here and you gotta agree, you keep tlking to the guy that likes you and you expect the same. well he started sayin dont bother me, i need to think, no i dont wanna hang with you. this made me really upset and we started fighting and fighting. now theres no chance and he found another girl he likes. psst. i found out THATS not true.
welll we're not talking now and im just waitin to see what happens. im tryin to get over him its been months now. but its uncomfortable. i told him im going to NY to be with my friend and he didnt say anything. im just SO SO pissed at him. but i have a feeling hes gonna come back around but i dont wanna take advantage of it. just waiting. :(

here is a huge hug for u sweetie much love and huggies

Oh being 17 sucks expecially when it comes to relationships.

At the risk of sounding like a man hater you don't need that crap in your life and you certainly don't need to be saddled with a horrible relationship and a baby.  you should be out dating and having fun.  So perhaps you need to re evaluate your feelings for this bloke?  If people truly care for you they don't mess you about and they aren't confused about their feelings.

Take care and a large large hug for you!

Suzi

hi sweetie big huugs n blessing love lluvia

Boy trouble hey and at 17,boy oh boy,it can suck at times hey....You know at 17 you should be enjoying life and living it without the added stress of boy stuff.Life gets so complicated when you get older and this is the age when you should be as free as you can be....I agree with Suzi....But sounds like he needs space,so give it to him as much as i know you want him to come running back etc.I know it hurts,you're angry and all the other emotions that go with it but in time it does fade....Keep yourself busy,take your mind off this whole thing,meet other people or hang with mates......Do things for yourself that make you happy,i really wish i had of enjoyed my teen years better,but i didnt,i really regret it.And remember never be someones door mat ok,i know that sounds harsh but i dont mean it like that,i mean dont let a boy or anyone for that matter walk over you,be with you,then not be with you and so on......It isnt good for someones health to be pushed and pulled in two directions.People at the best of times just need time to think and have space......and here is a *huggle* and my positive thoughts heading your way.

Tamara :o)