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Posts: 9 · Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 4:32 am

This past week has been a very stressful one and i'm not sure what to do about it.

i have a step mom who yells at my kids (long story as to why she has them), puts my dad and myself down at times and i just spent a whole week at her place house sitting while she was out of town, had a run in with my second oldest boy and then today she got on my case about me speaking to someone she thinks i should not have spoken to.

i am at a loss as to what to tell her other than i refuse to get into her problems with my dad and if she wants respect she needs to stop yelling at the kids.

i guess i just need a hug

wishing all well,
aeleberaNB

Posts: 36 · Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 6:15 am

I'm so sorry your home life is so ugly. Your Step-Mother sounds a whole lot like my biological mother. My mother is bi-polar, and she was recently diagnosed. But, she made life a living hell when myself and my siblings were growing up.
So, here's some special loving hugs for you, but first I want to add that you are a good person no matter what anyone says.
(((((((( HUGS HUGS HUGS ))))))))) and (((((((( MORE HUGS ))))))))))
Things will get better. You need to believe that they will.

Happiness for you,
Ronda

Posts: 9 · Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 3:49 am

Rhonda:

Thank you for the hugs and the words of encouragement. she is 65 yrs old and just as nasty now as when i was a kid, so it shouldn't have surprised me when my kids told her where to go and how to get there recently.

((((((((((((((((((((HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS AND MORE HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Posts: 1274 · Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 9:38 am

I cannot really add any further advice but do willingly add one of my HUGE hugs - hope it helps a little and that you are able to find a resolution very soon.

Brightest Blessings

Sarah

Posts: 109 · Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 3:05 pm

Hey Aelebera

Was reading your post and here is a big HUG for you. Sometimes when people are not feeling right, are having problems of their own, or are just harden at heart, they need to make others feel as miserable as they are. While they should be concentrating on what would make them be better, they are zeroed in on someone else and how to make them feel bad. Pray for her, treat her with all the kindness that you possibly can muster up or you may just have to ignore her. Bless you and all the hugs to you.