I am sending you one of my HUGE hugs to help you through this difficult time.  Everything that has been said is very true and the more positive your thoughts and the happier the memories that you recall, the easier the path through grief is to travel.

I lost my husband in February this year and, yes, I miss him dreadfully and I do shed tears from time to time but, thanks to people here and those close to me in my life, large parts of my days are filled with laughter and it helps.

Here's another HUG for you ... keep smiling and the sun and rainbows WILL return to your life, I promise

Brightest Blessings

Sarah

I believe that your rainbow will arrive when you decide it is time to accept it.  Acceptance being the key word here.

Thank you for allowing me to share with you my humble opinion.

Alasandro

a big hug to u  sweetie sweetie its always difficult to lose loved ones, im sure he is looking down on u smiling huggies

i really want to thank you all for your sweet replys and sarah im so sorry for your loss, im glad you have family and friends who love and support you...

a week after my grandad died i had to move out of my home as my landlord had gone bankrupt and his mortgage company repossesed his house on the same day my ex husband kidnapped my 3 young children and said some really wicked hurtfull things about me, i love my children with every fibre of my being and it broke my heart into millions of pieces every day when i called his phone to talk to my children, my youngest daughter is a tiny little thing very dainty for her 5 years as she is the baby of them all she has been treated as such and to hear her sob on the other end of a phone asking her mummy to take her home couldnt have hurt me more, i feel like someone has reached into my chest and pulled my heart out....

i do welcome a change in the way my life is going and i desperately try to be positive even if it is for them i knw i have to be strong and fight to get my children back i just hope that that things will turn out for the best and i can live my life out with my children happy and safe with me well away from my violent, abusive ex husband it has been 7 weeks on friday and counting ipray i get my babies back before they forget me


katy

Can't you find him? Why haven't the police picked up the kids and returned them? If he has a past history with abuse and not a fit parent, you should have no problem in getting them back.

Our prayers are with you.