A person came into my life from the tomb and take my tranquility away... I need help!, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 5 · Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 8:42 pm

I had a very bad and weird experience that started accurately one year behind.
A person that I knew at the time of the college (29 years behind) called me by phone. He is now living in the USA, and I am in Brazil. He is married (I don't know if happy or not) and has a good job. We started a virtual relationship. He said that I was the love of his life, despite at college time we never had nothing but friendship.
Well, things go this manner for about 2 monts. Then he changed from Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hide. He run away, don't talk anymore with me at MSN, not even by phone... and I tried it very hard. Just emailed few words sometimes.
And now, thing finished very badly… How to explain these incident? I was quiet at my corner, he came, said so many beautiful thinfs, and then, it was over... I can't accept that.... Please, someone help me!!!!

Posts: 10719 · Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 8:56 pm

Well let be start with a big Grandpa hug for you.....the feelings you now have are hard to carry.

The best way to help you is to ask you to forget the whole thing.....take it as a flirt and nothing more.
Use it for good memories...or if they hurt to much....try to not think on them....go on with your life....don't build sand castle.

It's a known phenomenon that many get a crush on another partner on the net.....there are a lot of "flirting going around" after all they sit safe in their own room...nothing to fear....they live out their fantasies....and don't give a second thought to how they damage the other part who don't take this as a fantasy.
Now he might have felt it started to burn...and then the best way was to withdrawn.... he is yellow

So another big Hug from me....and cheer up I am sure there are some other that is set for you

Posts: 424 · Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 10:01 pm

Hello Sol

Welcome to Mysticboard. A Perfect place to get a cyber ((( HUG )))

Because I know that these (((hugs))) can be felt I understand just how you came to fall in love over the net. A cyber fantasy for both came an abrupt ending and now you are devastated. Of course you are, especially since you don't have any reasons for why it ended. You don't understand why it began either... except he flattered you. Oh Boy, do we women ever need that. LOL OKAY? Even though this makes us pretty dumn, sometimes...

Lets suppose his wife (happily married, or not) found out about his fantasy flings over the internet and made an ultimatum??? Like Rhutobello said, "maybe he might have felt it started to burn."

I want to also say... love yourself... be happy and proud of who you are. Say nice things to yourself, about yourself, all day long... you will soon believe you are worth something! And one more thing, May I suggest (unless you have lots of money, of course) look for a local man to communicate with and date. Wink, wink

P E A C E
Evie

Posts: 5 · Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 11:07 pm

Thanks for your nice words, Evie and Rhutobello. I'm 51, but in reality i am a teenager who still belives in prince charming .lol

Posts: 10719 · Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 6:06 pm

aren't we all.....hopefully I am a kid to I go to my grave, life is much to serious without us making it more difficult