I have been studying a lof about NPL and i love it! i'm using rapport techniques and always works

NLP methodology:

NLP changes emotional responses in given situations. it uses the clients imagination to transform negative feelings to positive feelings.

you sit with the client so that you can reach both hand... then you ask the client what resources they think they need in order to over come the unwanted feelings.
ie.. strength.. confidence.. and so on .. you then call these the resource feelings.
and what you are going to do is associate negative feelings with one hand and positive feelings with the other. you take them back to a negative event and
touch one hand to represent the negative feelings.. then you take them to a positive event ( resource feeling/ words) place your hand on the other hand to represent the
the positive feelings..
then with that being done you
then go back to the negative event and apply pressure to the positive hand
creating a physical link to the positive resource feelings.  have them take a snap shot of themselves with the good feelings in that event ( that was negative)
and so on..
this is just a short description of how NLP works.
you are replacing negative emotions with positive emotions
using touch, verbal commands and mental imagery

Do not try to do this technique with out being well versed in it. we all want to help others not make matters worse.

Ravenuriel~