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tourbi
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Location: tourbiland, at the foot of Pikes Peak, USA
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 2:46 am |
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NLP has some neat parts for being able to read people better. Seeing how they take info and process is visual, kinesthetic(sp) , auditory. Then how to learn to communicate so people better understand. Like, to be with someone who is auditory and only speak in see this, did you view that, type conversations, is going to leave the auditory person out of the conversation/speech, sermon, etc. To put a visual kid at the back of the class and the auditory kid at the front may not be the best. To only have tell and no show in classrooms, leaves many of the kids behind.
For mystical help, I am not visual. I used to test pure kinesthetic, which is why I can't spell it. So, to expect me to see entities on the other side, colors in auras, ain't gonna happen. I feel them around and reach out and feel and can feel the presence. With my skills I have learned to have a form of being visual, that I don't know how to explain, but it is done thru the spaciousness of the energy. If someone is auditory and hears what is going on with energy, the crackling, the laughter, the tears, then it is good to work with people to get info. from an auditory place.
Now, to do a reading as an auditory for a visual, the auditory may need to use speech that paces the visual person. Speaking in seeing workds rather than hearing words.
I once had a kite store. A blind man came in to SEE the kites. I would take them off the wall and SHOW them to him. He was blind, but paced me visually. I paced him back visully and spoke very graphically using see words so he could see the kites while he felt them. The person who taught me NLP was in the back room of the store listening. He ended up laughing because it looked and sounded so strange.
The blind man thanked me for doing that because most people didn't understand that he was trying to make a better connection with them since most people are visual.
It is more difficult to pace people on the net because you can't see the eye movements and hear their speech, but it does show in their writing. One of the objects is to communicate in full representation, using visual, touchy/feely(see, I didn't have to spell the word) and auditory, then all are included.
In doing meditation with others, I have had the facilitator speak only in visual words and I never accomplished what they wanted me to achieve. I just couldn't see what they wanted me to.
My therapist used NLP. In the hypnosis, as he would put me under, he used full rep. to take me down. He would have me feel going down the stairs, or feel the air as we would fly places. He was also a feely(yea, use the right word) person.
I hope this helps.
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