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| (The only thing I don't understand is how Mars can be a signifactor for both Querent and Quesited in this case.) |
Sometimes this happens, and generally it's best to give the significator to the quesited and just let the querent take the moon, but I ultimately decided against using Mars anyway. Men can be signified by Mars, Sol, and Saturn, but Mars is probably too young for you (more men my age) and Saturn is probably too old for you (men your father's age), but the Sun is just about your age. :P
So, I decided to not use Mars anyway, and the Moon made more sense for you anyway as it naturally signifies you both as a querent and as a woman.
