Jane
Crockett, Ca.
local time is 4:47 am PDT.
approx lat 37, long 122.

I am no astrologer...there are none in Western Astrology just now...I can see you have put up several request....to do such thing for the same question will only create more frustration then help....if the advice is different...which is true...which is wrong?  It might not be the one you like the best that is the right one.. I close the two in Astrology and Hope Cedar will give good advices in Tarot.

We shall all pursue our dreams as long as we can see there is hope to fulfill them.

We all are responsible for our own actions.

The only way to be sure is to approach your "prince", to ask, and to try to have a "sound" evaluation of your relationship with this guy.

To only build dreams, and hope, will only prevent you from spotting the real "prince" if he should approach.

Good luck.

Thank you, I get that you say I must be in charge of my own destiny, fate, mindset, goals...
I guess it seems easier to say: forget him and begin to end contact because then I don't have to be responsible for whatever may take place.
It is just terribly painful for me to consider that this wonderful man may not be the one, when he brought such refreshing air with him. And I assume it is upon me to figure out how and why it went wrong, otherwise I will be apt to repeat it. Maybe he just used me, is all. It might be that simple and ordinary.
I appreciate your reply.
Huggs.
Jane

i thought i could post the chart for the given time frame, but my chart drawer won't let me. It looks like taurus is on the rise abd I don't know how i read the results anyway.

I am the first house
the relationship is the 7th house
ruler of first is venus.
venus is in the 12th.
ruler of 7th is virgos ruler.
I am not even sure who rules virgo or aquarius.