Hi,
I am going to try this again. Basically I found out that my bf has been cheating on me.. I have broken it off but I just need to know where i go from here where he is concerned. This is my question:

Is my bf(recent ex) the man I am intended to marry? the time is 2.07pm uk time. my birth details are as follows as well as his.. please  let me know if i am missing anything i'm still new at this!
my details:
november 24, 1983
born at 9am mountain time
Calgary, Canada

his details:
september 7, 1979
not sure of birth time but it was after 3pm uk time
born in London, UK

thank you  

No...he is not the man you want to marry..because he don't love you enough to stay with you in the hard days....and you have got a doubt that will follow you, and in the end, destroy the marriage.
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Do you agree?
If so, fine...try to forget him...there is lots of good partners out there...many carry your name....you must only allow yourself to find them.
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You did not agree with my first statement?
Well, then go ahead and make yourself a good marriage with him.
"Love" is many times controlled by feelings, and the need to own, to explore.
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All Great marriages are build on mutual respect and trust, and if you find that you can trust this man, then much is done already.

There is nothing that are for sure here in life, and that is why I mostly promote own initiative, own evaluation and the control of your own life.
In my opinion will that lead to fewer "pegs" where we put our blames, and by that we might work that little bit more to save what we believe in, on a clouded day.
Remember..even the most perfect marriage will have lots of them....the clue is the trust and the ability to let it go, before it creates a storm

Good luck whatever choice you make

I will decline to do a horary chart here, because the answer is obvious.  I agree with Rhutobello.  No one who cheats on you should ever be considered for marriage.  If he does this to you before marriage, when people try to be on their "best behavior," then just think what kind of a nightmare you'll have with him when he's married to you and isn't on his "best behavior" anymore!  Yuk!

This guy is bad news!  There are enough "red flags" here to tell you to run as quickly as possible in the other direction as you possibly can!

Stop selling yourself short, and don't settle for less than you deserve in a mate!  Dump this jerk, and be glad you found out his true character before you tied the knot.

Just let go!  After you let this scumbag go, your heart will be free to find a real love; not some selfish, self-centered jerk who only thinks about his loins instead of your feelings and his commitments to you!  Stop feeling sorry for him or your broken-heart!  Get mad, and get offended that he'd treat you this way!  Respect yourself in this way, so others will respect you, too!

Thank you Rhutobello and Youdah for both of your replies  
I did break up with him.. and its been over for a few weeks now. It was along time coming, and in all honesty I am glad that it is over, because it was a nightmare. And your right, someone who can do this now, with all talk of marriage, meeting parents etc, God knows what else would be in store afterwards. I've had to re-evaluate myself and how i see myself.. build myself back again.. the things he's done to me... i don't know if i can love and truly trust another guy.. i really dont.

I've actually switched now.. and seeing a girl, she knows everything about the situation... and although its all new to me and everything.. the amount of care, and affection she is showing me.. don't think i've ever got that from anyone ever. Only thing is that obviously with me being indian etc.. i don't know.. i'm not ready to fall in love with her.. i cant. not with everything that has happened with my ex. everything that he's done hurts.. because i really did love him and cherish every moment with him. but now i found out that every moment with him was a lie. He slept with a number of women... not sure how many.. but alot. I went home to tell my family about him.. and he was meeting girls.. when i went into depression and tried to end my life... he didn't have time for me.. i was too much pressure.. i was making the relationship bad... he abandoned me and let me and also contributed big time to me going down.. and the whole while he was sleeping with so many girls. It hurts.. and I do have alot of things i need to sort out in myself first and foremost. I honestly do really care for this girl i am seeing at the moment though.. truly do like her. she's amazing in every single way.. although she scares me because she can see me for who i really am. I don't know.. anyway.. i'm sorry to be getting into a long speech here lol.. I just wanted to say thank you to both of you for taking the time to read my post and giving me some great advice and thought. I totally agree with both of you. I've got more to give than he deserved anyway :D lol
Nightangel

I'm glad to hear that you are out of that situation.  Of course,, it hurts!  The scumbag betrayed you, and lied to you, and hurt you...and stood before you with a straight face and said he loved you...when he has no idea what the word "love" even means!  Give yourself time to heal, and be good to yourself, and that includes your secret thoughts about yourself!  You ARE a good person.  You DO deserve better.  You ARE lovable!

If the girl in the new relationship truly cares for you, she will give you time to take it slow.  Listen to your own intuition.  It's telling you to hold back a little, and so that is a good thing to do.  It doesn't feel like it now, but you will get through this difficult time.  Please always remember that no matter how awful things feel, life always gets better...so stay around for the good times after having the bad!

Warm regards...