hi Rishi ji
it is Shabina...again
I am feeling so left out and alone that even opening eyes every morning is a painful experience...
I had dearly loved my husband..who seemed to love me back when he was in India
But once i reached America,god knows why but he was so indifferent..i used to be so alone and feel left out thta i used to tell him again and again that he is making me feel alone...i became a mentally sick person there who started to hate him one minute for neglecting me and love him one minute for just holding me in his arms..i used to feel at peace in his arms
even though it may be just for a minute
What could be wrong with me
i have had many of you nice people give me diagnosis regarding what went wrong with our marriage..but that all went above my own head and even my husband's head as we are not into astrological terms

What i know now is that he was told just 5 days before our marraige that he will ave a short life and thta our marraige will not last for more that 6-8 months..can such a thing be predicted...

If yes how far is it true in our case...

Also can you tell me something about what will be so nice in this world that i should look forward to getting up every morning..I am constantly worried about my husband

Birth details are not for Horary forum,
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please help sir ..i need something nice to wish to live in this world

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please help sir ..i need something nice to wish to live in this world[/quote]

happy birthday Shabina!

Yes, Happy Happy Birthday Shabina

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Perhaps not the right forum etc for posting my musings and ponderings but those who are meant to get it, shall get it! I will let the postal and communication match-making for Higher Forces, right, Tourbi

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TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
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Horary:
virgo: 4Pada
Libra: Gulika, 10P 12P
Sco: 6P
Cap: 3P
Aqu: Ra (AK), Me (PuK), Ve (BK)
Pis: Su (DK), 5P
Ari: 11P
Gem: Ma(MK), 2P, 7P
Can: Mo (GK), 1P
Leo: Sa/r (PiK), 8P, 9P

Some of the obvious additional confirmers (gk in 2nd and PiK in 9P etc I have left untouched as also other factors that are too obvious)

virgo rises with sukhpada in it aspected by sun (griha and rashi drishti) darakaraka in the 7th house. Karako bhav nashaya! Sun is very strong so the decision was initiated by the spouse to end the marriage. Jupiter is amatyakaraka and placed in the sukhsthana and aspecting mars in the 10th (griha and sign drishti) and mars is matrikarka and placed on the 2nd and 7th pada! As the querrant seeks help and sukha from amatyas, friends, the answer that will convince is about the role of 'mother' or mother-figures in the disruption of this earthly situation. There is also a matter of incompatibility insofar as the amorous aspects of marriage are concerned as also something to do with the growth of family. Mars being present on that sensitive zone is indicative of tension, dissent, and conflicts. When mars is placed in a mercurian sign, and is weak in the chart and mercury is placed in the 6th house with rahu and venus -- there is confirmation of there being concealed hostility and to some extent absence of clarity and ongoing confusion.

The karma is not, therefore, as well as the "problems" have not been clearly and directly conveyed, regardless of initial love etc.

There is caring obviously and that is what is creating the following problems in this situation:

There is some major lack of honest communication between the two.

This dishonesty, no matter how well-meant must come to an end and the two parties should face each other honestly and say their piece and peace and discharge each other like happens in modern societies and cultures. Ghosts of past feelings of affection and caring must not get in the way of personal and present growth!

Moon is gnatikaraka and placed in strength in the 11th right where Arudha (lagnapada) is! However, emotional pleas though automatically sought and being tried to get answers are generating hostility from amatyas, friends from whom help is being sought! BECAUSE , moon is gnatikarka placed on arudha and so the individual will be SEEN not as a friend or one who should be helped because all friends that are being approached (divinators=jupiter) are placed in sixth from AL and under the watch of mother (that has something to do with religion and religious belief is what the chart is telling me, because most of us get our religious and cultural beliefs from our mothers).

In this case, the father is important but has chosen to take a backseat and that is a major loss and source of confusion and what can bring back peace, even if not the marriage back together!

Saturn is pitrikaraka and placed in 12th in the horary chart and the dashas in natal (which I did not consider really) and the horary are ruled by saturn and when something significant, separative and so painful occurs around the 36th year in life, I instinctively look at saturn.

I will now stop and I am pasting it here even though it may sound like a reading because this posting was for the jyotishis to read and I have restricted myself to just the horary.

I am sorry I am not going to post any more details or data etc on this matter. I have given the varga position that I used for this posting.

The gift has been given, sometimes, the gift is not always left where it's expected, yet it mean just as much, if not more, when it is found and explored.  In other words.  Yes,
Since I have stuck my nose in here,   I hope all turns out for the highest purpose for all concerned.
Many Blessings to all.