[quote="Sei no Senshi"]
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| Unless I'm just completely off the mark. Since you are receiving your father, he shouldn't have a problem with it. It's like getting his support. Mars receives Venus, so he'll get her support for you...somehow. |
Ok.. hmm now its about when and how to talk to my dad.. gosh this feels like playing chess

.. there are going to be things that i know my dad won't like about him.. things i know that can be worked upon and will be deffinitely in the new year.. but another thing i should toss into this complicated mess.. i don't know if you can see this in my partner's birth chart (assuming your using charts to do this analysis) he also has a dependent in his life from a previous relationship. This is the most complicated part of my relationship with him and i have no idea how to put it across to them or when. i thought of waiting it out til they get to know him and then tell them about it.. but then i might be taken as again hiding and keeping things a secret and lose all the support i might have gained!
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You're the tank! Silly! :P[quote]
Really?! So i've got leverage?!! wow.. NO Seriously! Wow.. that is deffinitely a first for me.. usually i'm the clown car and my mum is the massive tank! how i've managed to suddenly become a tank i have absolotely no idea..

.. but i'm soooo not complaining!! Thank you!!
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I would say that if you start to lose your cool, tell her you'll call back later and hang up the phone. That'll give you time to just sit back and think about what happened.
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Yup.. think i will have to do that when i am back in the uk.. because i have a feeling this will get ugly.. while i'm here i can't do that.. and since we are sleeping in the same room.. it could get a bit uncomfortable.. tears etc.. but will have to stick it out.. focus on objective and stay calm.. just very afraid i will do the same thing i always do and bow my head down in shame at my mum's disapproval.. *sigh*.. i really hope i can overcome this all.. i'm going to be really cheeky and ask.. do you know how long its going to take to win my family over?? .. sorry i had to ask!
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Well, seeing as how my bets usually range from one dollar to two dollars, five is quite a thing for me.  |
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Wow! ok you don't realise how big of a smile you have just put on my face! :D thank you for saying that! Looks like i really have found the right one for me!! :D that would also explain the little signs i've been getting from God.. it all made sense awhile ago (i know that sounds really ubsured.. but seriously.. there have been little signs that i've asked for thoughout my life for God to give me when i find the one i am meant to be with.. and since they have happened i keep praying that i'm reading the signs right..sorry if i sounds nuts

).. and now you've confirmed it! :D
thank you!!
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