A Big Hug to you Rangeela, and to those who feel they need it.

Yea, its hard to live with people who have a "psychic illness", because very few can imagine the stress and the "sadness" it creates.

I also had a mother who had the same, and as young boy I silently "cried a lot" when put to bed at night, and wished to be away....but when I was away on vacation, I only wanted to go home.....so we are hurt yes....but we love them

You said the same in your post, never argue for the sake of arguing....and they never hurt in order to hurt us....but their illness does.......but the illness must not be allowed to be a sleeping pillow for them....they must, just like those around them, also try to better their situation by taking med, counselling, exercise, and to have regularity....this might improve their life situation....and by that improve the life for all around them.

Thank you so much rhutobelloji ( grandpa..  )