I was thinking ..of all the request I get for readings ... and the thought occured to me .. that most are looking for happiness..

Why is this such a struggle.. not all of us are comedians and can make oursleves laugh... life is not always happy moments.

We look for others to bring us happiness.
We seek a partner to be happy.
We live for this long awaited happiness.
Why?

It is very over rated the way we treat happiness.. I think sometimes we forget ..happiness is within.. find  your own happiness and the rest will fall into place.

A good friend of mine from India ..once told me that I am always down ..(yes I was) .. I was struggling to see my own happiness.. WHAT MY OWN HAPPINESS >>HES CRAZY .. yea maybe a little but arent we all! ...well he aproached me with this idea...
see everyday I was seeing the dark clouds ..i coudlnt see the white fluffy ones no more... when somene said you look nice ..I didnt recall that I only heard the negative on the news.  So as I go on ..
he says to me take each day one day at  a time ..reflect on it at the end of the day... do not look for the bad..or you will find it ..but look for just one thing one thing to be happy about one thingthat is a positive ..

Day one - lots of rotten things happen... but i remembered the moment that I thought my dog smiled at me and his eyes were closed was quit funny actually..........
Day 2 I had a mad parent screem at me.... I had a parent tell me they cant afford to pay me.. yep could be another rotten day ..but i rembmered my grandsons little hand touching my face and his so gentle of a smile...oh wow there is 2 good things

As you can see I continued this... (it takes 30 days to form a habbit) ... now its a every day pleasure to find something good ..and my life has been soooooo much smoother now...

I am going to suggest tothose who wish to have readings and such .. take 30 days to form the habbit I did .. see after 30 days if you still need a reading.  

Love and Light
Deborah

hey i love the idea
i should start these thing with the 30 days..
did you had to keep a diary?
when do you think of this? before you go to bed an review all the moments of the day?

nice words. one should look for happiness because it's what makes us feel good about ourselves. it's better to be happy than sad, as it is better to do good than bad. people seek happiness because it's like a common wish that everybody wants to make come true.

Very well said Deborah, what u said is similar to "Finding the silver line in a black cloud", but u said it in much simpilier way for ppl to understand.

I think those good things on the first 2 days was very good. I myself am visualising how u might have felt & i am feeling a calmness & hapiness which i hadn't thought about. It is wonderful to have such experiences. I wish u have more good things & less rotten things from now onwards.

I believe many people look to others for happiness. If someone is depending on others to make them feel happiness they will be sorely disappointed. Only when they realise that it is they who are in control of their thoughts and actions, will they find true happiness.
Happiness is within us, not outside of us.