What was my reason for my reaction to your post........You display knowledge, and abilities that goes beyond the average ability of a human...BUT  you are very ego focused, and use way to many words....you must learn to give more of the essence  faster, I think most of us have just read the 10 first lines.

It is NORMAL for a BOY and a GIRL to come together.....It is NORMAL for a BOY and a GIRL to split up.....that be on an early stage, or after many years.

When we start out our relationship we don't know that much about our partner, when we see each other on regular basic we learn each other, and MAYBE find out that this person was not what I wanted to share life with.

THAT is NO BIG DEAL.....that happens to thousands each day....it can hurt very much....but again it is thing that happen, and the sooner one can accept it, the sooner can one move on with ones life.

It can be good to evaluate why such thing happens.....it can be good to evaluate ones own behavior.....and even if one feel that one have done a great deal to make the relationship going.....maybe the focus was on oneself and not the relationship itself.

A relationship is about sharing, where both parts must feel they have a value......if this is the case...then the foundation is good, and you can build a house for the future...if one feel outside...the foundation on that side will crumble, and the house will tip.

In order to evaluate your relationship we need to feel both yours feelings, and that can never be done....we can then evaluate it on the words of one....and its values can be said with some words...crap...zip...no value at all, except for boosting ones own ego!

When a couple breaks up the first thing they want to know (individually) is what happened? then they want to know what the other is thinking or doing since the break up?  I don't know why but we can not leave the relationship alone.  When it is dead - bury it.  Anyone who hangs on indefinitely is merely seeking for heartache at the deepest level.  Let is all go!  That is the sane and best direction.  

But then again that takes some strength of mind and emotion.  Some of it comes with age as the experiences are more.  If you are wise you will seek within for your own strength through meditation (as already suggested) or even mental/emotional help with dealing with a specific relationship.

There are 2 modes we adopt when we feel threatened...fight or flight.  We can see which you chose!

You cant make a post like that where it almost seems youare accusing her of firing some psychic barrage on you and then almost making it sound as tho you believe she is possesed by one or many demons....and expect ppl to take you seriously just bc you say you arent crAzy it doesnt mean you people will beleive that, especially since you have never come into phsyical contact with this girl. I dont want to make you feel bad really I just think sometimes people get wrapped in life and the paranormal/occult world can seem like a rational explanation for a what was basically a girl who seems to have been for lack of a better phrase..f*cking with you. HOpe it all works out and you can move past this.... :/

To elaborate just a little bit more. I am really sorry you have to go thru this but sometimes you have to face the facts of what really going on in your worls and sometimes things are that you care more about another [erson than they do you. Dealing with the issue is way easier in teh long run than hiding behind a story that might make you feel a little better...for a little while....