People say ur upbringing matters a lot as to the person u r or have now evolved into? do u think so?
Maybe ur upbringing was not that good.. but u see around u and understand that u need to change and do so for the better.. but sometime ur past does show up in u  in some way or other ?
just my views... i may b wrong.. what do u think??

A person's upbringing is very important in their life. A person whatever their Astrology or Numerology can say, can change for good or bad, depending on their upbringing.

i agree upbringing imp...  my bro used to tell me this.. but i never believed him..now id
i agree will to change is posssible
but do u think soemtime somehwere.. some characteristic that the person has tried in so many years to give up, surfaces??

Yes ppl change, My great-grandfather was a very popular person, even today, 30+ years after he died, why?? because of his helping nature, because of his truthfulness, he helped (& cared) for everyone in his village & also the neighbouring ones too. He broughtup all his kids & grandkids in the same way. But my father's father & his brother's & sister's were all pieces of S*%#. After he died they like forgot everything he said, & did very selfish & petty thing's, i think my great-grandpa's soul hasn't been able to rest still.

Surprisingly my dad was the only of the 3rd generation, who inherited my great-grandpa's moral values & helping nature & he put the same in me & my sister, & they have brought us up very well, even in very difficult & near bankrupty condition's, none of us, lost our values & helping nature. Surprisingly again (to my dad, i knew this before he agreed to it) none of the 20-odd brother's & sister's he had (most of them cousins) none had inherited those values.

Now those values are in the 4th Generation, that is me & my sister, but I think she has those values more to heart than me. Not so surprisingly none of the other 30- odd cousins i have, no one else has these values. & 2 of my "a bit distant" aunts got married recently, since i don't see them having these values, i doubt there kids will too.

& this is just my father's side, my mom's side is even worse. But luckily some of my cousins on this side are decent.


Upbringing counts a lot, but it is upto the person to decide if they want to follow it or not...

thats very true... what about negative aspects that ur trying to overcome  but resurfaces again?