sometimes there doesnt seem to be a single answer to a question.. yes or no right or wrong? how does one decide and make decisions???

Well....this is in fact a part of life....and a part of your free will.

You can experience it often.....let say you are on a new place....each time you come to a "crossroad" you have the option to take 1 -2 or 3 new directions....you don't know what you will experience in any of them....and if you stand still or go back...you will stay as wise as before...no new input at all.

So what do you do....you take the road that your inner self like most.....you experience what the road gives...and if you don't like the development of the direction...you go back to the cross again ...and try a new approach to see if that is more what you like.

Sometimes it is not possible to go back, because life develop all around you....but if one follow ones inner voice....one might accept thing much better....because you know inside yourself that you took the decision, and no one else....then you have the experience....then you can try other approaches.

If we always knew what to decide...or what to do...then in fact we must live a predefined life.....lucky enough this is not the case....then it is up to our self to create our life, and a part of that is to investigate...to fail and to win....but as long as we try.. we will always grow from experience....both from our failure and our success

Hi swetha .  Amaste {respect the divine within Nature}

I make "mad" decisions sometimes and I expect the :
Grace of Man and Modern Piety to be kind about Anew
ways we may be happy with Free Will [as Rhuto says]

and I will want to make the options with Life in General
show us what the options will begin best positive regard
to consider the choices [not to obfuscate Life] though to

allot the Power of RightMinded and Secular thought with
accord .,. we are the power of design .  We design Anew
future each path we take in regard to our meditation on
Premise We Design Our Future , not some time power ., over us as the regard to be pre-destined . , .
as the pre-destin~y will be our Fate .|. isn't our Free Will .,. it's the sense of control of those who will :
Try to As~cert~ain the future as controlled by a Power of Domain . We are not the mediator to be um
controlled by our Fater of Logical {dishonest~y} about future and the sense : "I told you so" unethical
referral to what we know will be our sense of honesty with Cosmic Powers .,. and not the determined:
Supression of Positive Future By Those Who Would Want All Mathematical Intention of Prediction
so with Rhuto joining us again [and to help with calm and clear insight about Proper Domain] impasse.

I don't care to know
each detail on basis
your future is yours
and not my technic
to predict with then
or forecast Powers
being controlling .,

Your future is yours
so meditate on Rite
and Proper thought
to be best Provider
to your happiness .

Not Your Secular
Fate as we are A
Power Being The
Design of Energy
BlessedB Evard .

I always try to listen to my inner self but at times my emotions and or the situation at hand can fog my mind up a little. So I just take the leap after much feeling & thinking. No right or wrong for myself,just another lesson to grow from. I try to keep reminding myself of that if I ever feel something was a mistake.