Dear Friends,

All those writing in a particular Thread and accusing each other are very respected members of this Board. Why do we attack or accuse each other? Actually it is our Ego which is hurt and when once this Ego melts down we won't see anything wrong with anyone. It is said By Baba Guru Nanak:  

EK NE KAHIN DOOSRE NE MANI

NANAK KAHEN DONO GYANI.

MEANS IN ENGLISH.

IF ONE PROPOSES SOMETHING AND THE OTHER INVOLVED IN THE DISPUTE AGREES THEN BOTH ARE VERY LEARNED PEOPLE.

Surely after sometime everything will be back to normal. If I am made a moderator I know I am also likely to make mistakes as per perception of some of the other members. So I would always say let the other person moderate and see the result.

Whatever good we do we get its sweet fruit and God forbid whatever wrong we do we are bound to pay for it and this will be experienced by the wrong dooer.

I remember one very highly respected person, known to me, in charge of repairing our commercial premises as also of many others, simply locked my shop and demanded more money towards repairs without explaining the reason for more money. No accounts given. I had a very sleepless night. For 2 nights I simply perspired whole night without getting any sleep. I saw my career going down the drain if my shop is not returned back to me rightfully I would not be able to work. Since I was right and I was hurt and I could not fight back what happened next. This man was standing with his friends under a building which was in a dilapidated condition after 2/3 days of harassing me. The building simply fell down and this man got trapped in the debris. After 2 years of hospitilisation he came back to normalcy. What I intend to say is if one is right one need not attack the other. You are right and you have expressed yourself then let Nature takes its own course.

Nature has its own way and nobody can challenge that. This is not the only instance. There are many other such instances which have happened in my life which are nothing short of miracles and I have already posted elsewhere Experiences of my life. So once we have expressed our view point let the other think and react or else leave it to Nature. Kudrat apna kaam hamesha karta hain. Honesty is always rewarded by HIM.

Pravin Kumar

I understand what you are saying and thank you for your wise words.

Suzi