thanks for your replies
I guess, this thread may seem weird coming from the admin

But these are issues which are on many people's minds but they do not voice it. But I personally feel this will help readers and seekers relate better with each other knowing more clearly, what to expect or not expect.
Readers... please don't ever think that I am questioning your abilities or the truth behind esoterism. Else this forum wouldn't be here today

more like a way in which readers can help the seekers understand better about readings.
I am a layman and have no experience in astrology. this forum was developed with the intention to help people and will always strive to help people in need. I am speaking more in terms of what a person seeking advice should expect.
Yes.. The part of people asking if you knew about it, why couldn't you do something, also happens.... so is it good knowing about it and worrying over it? How does one deal with this?
Should one take the readings as a guidance and work on it? Curiosity is a major factor too.. even for me
But do people decide on which reading is best for them, based on what they would want to happen or what they want themselves to believe?? This gets scary for all parties concerned when the seeker becomes obsessed with the reading. seekers also need to understand that somethings may not happen and should not ruin their life waiting for it to happen.
I hope this discussion will clear the doubts on people's minds.