A question had been asked  to me today , why Men always trouble women and make the life of women miserable? Is it a perogative of Men to go away from home without informing the wife? Is it that perrogative of Men to talk ill of women? Why men behave cowardly ? Why can't Men face the situation boldly rather than escaping from the problem?

These sort of question has been asked to me for the past few days by some of my known lady friends for which the answer given by me were not at all acceptable to them

Views on this is solicited

Well... while a lot of men have the tendency to do those things sometimes, not all men. But even if we could stereotype all men into one category, there's no one answer for those questions. What was happening at home to make the man leave and not tell his wife? Were the men speaking ill of women to look cool in front of their buddies? And what is the problem that they won't face head-on? I know plenty of men who are far from cowardly! With all due respect, tell your friends to stop dating losers. They will be much happier... ;)

men making the life of women miserable!!! who says so!! they are a miserable lot by themselves.

come on govardhanvt, grow up.  i can give you instances of women making a hell out of men's lives. it's not about men and women. it's about individuals. miserable bluntheads always make others' lives misery, no matter whether it's a man or a woman.

Goverdhanji,

Read the below mentioned post I just copy pasted:

Man's Voice is a helpline for men because in general they are conditioned or socialised such that they are unable to share their conflicts, sorrows and other mental and emotional pain with another in their family or in their social circuit. If they cry, they are considered to be weak in most societies including the Indian community. Hence, they tend to withold, suppress or repress their feelings even when faced with traumatic situations, break-ups, victimisation due to lop-sided laws concerning their families, which can result in depression. This depression can result in problems in the family and at workplace.

A team of professional counsellors will provide guidance to men, who need a confidential listening ear, and direct them to proper channels if and when needed.

How do I contact a Man's Voice Counsellor?
You can contact them through smses/calls to their mobile phones, through emails or at their websites/portals. At least the first two sessions will be free except where indicated. The fees for the follow up/special sessions will depend on the counsellor. The callers are free to continue with the counsellors or find their own counsellors after the free sessions.


List of Man's Voice Counsellors

1) Dr.Hemant Mittal, Mumbai,
Dr Hemant is a Neuro-Psychiatrist and a Counsellor with a Post Graduate degree in Psychiatric Medicine. His first degree was an MBBS.

He specialises in solving emotional, behavioral, psychological and sexual health issues. The target areas are mostly, relationship management, stress management, anger management, depression, anxiety disorders and psychotic disorder. The management of stress and its induced disorders, involves a medical outlook and solution for problems related to appetite, sleep, memory, irritability, anger, sadness, suicidal tendencies, nervous-breakdowns, sexual disorder, etc.

He lived in South America for 20 years and returned to India to pursue his medical education and interest in psychiatry. In the last 5 years he has dealt with thousands of national and international patients both online and offline. He believes in a new age Psychiatric philosophy, which focuses on solution finding not through tranquilizing medication but by targeting the problem through:
a. psychoanalysis and counseling- using techniques like CBT, NLP, REBT, psychoanalysis, personality analysis
b. if required use low dose, new age, non-sedative, non-addictive medications. The medications can be ayurvedic, homeopathic or allopathic.
c. an informed discussion, and client centric approach solving his condition, by discussing and leting the client choose the treatment modalities.

2) Dr.Pradnya Ajinkya, Mumbai

Has expertise in Individual, Family, Marriage, Child and Adolescent Counselling; Rehabilitaion, and Psycho-Educational Assessments. Dr Pradnya also treats Anger Disorder, Anxiety and Depression, Feeling of Fear, Marriage and Relationship problems, Drugs and Alcohol Abuse, Suicidal Tendency, Stress, Grief and Loss, Incest and Molestation, Family Conflict, Sexual Addiction, Bereavement, and other Human Complexes and Mental Health Problems. Also provides career counselling.

3) Mrs Uma Sridhar, Bangalore


Has a Master's degree in Counseling from the University of South Australia; has worked with teens, adults and families; held motivational classes for youth at risk at schools especially for Singaporean Indian children; and has manned the SOS helplines. She is also a Living Values Education [www.livingvalues.net] trainer, who has done work with youths in Singapore's Reformative Training Centre and conducted Living Values Education trainings for educators.


As per statistic read in Papers Men are the worst suferers. This is because women speak out but men in pain and distress do not speak out and ultimately lose mental balance and even commit suicide. Since the laws of land favouring women more than men eve a wink at a girl from a boy could invite trouble.

True long time back women were more miserable but then times have now changed and women have become more knowledgeable and are seeing the world and also hold high posts in so many organisations. Even the President/Prime Minister of India are/have been Women and also elsewhere

Please contact Pravinji for contact details.

I agree with Pixiewitch tell you friends to stop dating losers!  overall replace the word "men" with "woman" and you will find it to be accurate too.  people in general can suck when it comes to relationships.