i thought i had an idea about it. coming to this thread and reading so far, i have forgot everything. now i start believeing that love is really just another bullsheet concept. the profit and loss part was interesting. that love is suffering also seems a funny concept. true that you may have to suffer in love. but, if it is suffering only, cathersis can be the best feeling you can have. is it a tragedy then? i've read, heard and seen such tragedies. but there are other happy love stories without suffering.

Dear Govardhan   =   ( Quote  )        I donot suffer as I never wish to love.I donot love because I never suffer. If one love nothing , then there is no suffering. When nothing suffers ,then nothing is there to  love . In simple words Love nothing, then there is nothing to suffer[/quote][/quote]



  I bet You are wrong. U love all , but  U say u dont love . Can U say U dont love your Mom? Or God? Can U deny , when U see your mom getting hurt or a small injury  in her body ,  u are not suffering ?

   No human can say,  no love no suffering . Even  Lord Budha Loved  peace . He had the desire , a man should  leave his desire to be in peace or to get happiness,  human  should leave aspiring  for something.  


In Tamil   we say  " Aasaiyatara  Manidhanai Paarka Budha ne Aasai pattan ." Desire is the cause of all un happiness which is termed as  [b]Suffering . .[/b]

     Love is another word for  Aspiring or Desiring . We can term it OR  clasiiffy OR distinguish it into Conditional Love and Unconditional Love Thats all .  

with Love,

Dear friends,

Just go through  this link of the thread please . Thanks.






Love,

when someone love nothing and nothing loves the individual where is the question of suffering. Nothing suffers and suffers  nothing