This question has been troubling me for quite sometime
some people are so bitter in life towards everything? what is it that they are after?
like i have this friend who is a great guy, but he has a problem with everything. he has to think negatively about everyone's intentions. has a problem with whomever he meets. has to crib and be rude about everything. i just find his attitude very bitter towards life
have been wondering how do i speak to him about it? he is pretty  decent with me....doesnt behave with me the same way he does with others. i am just worried about his wellbeing and dont want him to suffer later in life.
what do u think has made him this way? and how can i help him out? or do u think i am wasting my time?
any suggestions?

no one has anything to say???

Well i am for once don't know what exactely to say, loads of things i could say, but could sound very rude. So i was shutting my my big mouth till now. But now come to think of it, i think one way is to confront him with this particular problem of his, & listen to his side of the story, as to why he is like that. Maybe that will help him a bit, & then u can always take him to a counseller or a psychatrist (not that i am telling him he is mad, just that maybe the doctor might help him a bit in calming down or whatever they can to help him).

Again, he has to agree to all this, so i think u have a very big task @ hand. If he countinues like this he will be a loner in life like me.

come on.. ur not a loner... else u wudnt be here:) we r here for u right?
and this frnd of mine...is really nice, thats y i care for him and his wife. people(good friends) have tried to put sense into him but it doesnt seem to make a diff. now it has reached a stage where i have to think twice before going out with him... since i know for sure he is going to argue with someone somewhere.

i don't know......... though i have never met this guy so i will take your words for garantee. frist thing is that he does not want to see you. But if his this attitude is with every then there must have to much suffering in his life. you must understand his past then act accordingly. but if his this attitude has developed in past few years then he must ge reading too much nagitive material.