i feel over time.. he will only get used to having his own ways!

maybe, maybe not blue. & i agree with swetha that he might get used to his ways & become intolerable.

your friend sounds and behaves just like my husband. he drives me crazy!!he treats everyone that he meets like hes better than them and always has negative things to say,expects the worst from everyone. i tell my hubby all the time he needs to seek help. theres nothing you can do for a person that wont help themselves first. so i just let him go on being a jerk.his mother pretty much abandoned him when he was little,grew up with his granparents. never knew his father,he was conceived while his dad was in prison. his 1st wife of 18 years was screwing around on him the whole time. petty hellish if you ask me,but that dont give anybody the right to treat people in bad taste. my saying you reap what you sow, and do unto others as you would have them do to you. good luck with your friend.

u take care too Peyton..
ya i guess thats the conclusion i have come to. but i dont understand y people need to look at the bad things in a person and not the many other good things:( it doesnt help anyone by having such a  negative attitude, does it?

peyton, you must try to understand his past. I think there will be much bitterness in this life which made him like that, because life is very crule it can destroy onces personality in seconds. I hope you don't do the same as other did to him.