Well dawn u said something very important which i left out, that person's past. Yes swetha it will help if u know more about his past too, & take his wife on ur side, that will make the things a bit more easier. & yes again the doctor thing might help u, even i knowing more about his past, those guys do something like a hypnotic regression & help the paitent lossen up & answer their questions, so that they can help those paitents. Maybe that will help him.

& a bit off topic (sorry for that), i am a loner (all aquarians are meant & born to be loner's, atleast socially) & i am socially, but i am here because i don;t want to be lonely, & i really enjoy being here. & i have made some good friends here, & i like to be here.

well Vishwas those are physiatrist and yes you are right he must be take to the physiatrist. I am sure that thing will work.

wow! even suggesting a psychiatrist to him will be like@@#$$!!
he listens to me to a great extent.. but even i dont want to be invading his privacy:( he ha sa major attitude prb!
and Vishwas... i understand what u mean by a loner.. i am one myself.. and i like it:) this forum is like my second home!
never ever thought in my wildest dreams that i wud get so attached to it and the people here.

pardon me for typing psychiatrist wrong. swetha it is what they do he will not even know that some one is invading his privacy.

LOL:)) he is very sensitive to such issues:)