I know a lot of people always ask about soul mates and questions. I'm happy to say I've found mine.. But then there is the issue.. I know who they are.. They have the image of me in their mind, but do not know my name.
But how this all happened. I have talked about before. I don't really want to repeat it again.

But the first ways I figured out that the person was mine.. Was feeling a connection to them. Now explaining that it is hard.
And now more to the present talking about connection..
I right now and for a while now.. I have been able to tell when they think about me. And as weird as it sounds. But I can feel the emotions, their mood and such.

And from a friend who I found is in an identical situation. She told me some other ways to know if you are soul mates..
You share similar features. Like hand shape, eyes, ect..

I'm sure there are many other ways out there.

But this I would like to leave for people to put their own thoughts, and information on soul mates and such.

Soul relationships are not about playing games with each others minds.  Reading minds is a real and viable exercise.  But it should only be practiced when both parties are agreeable - otherwise it is not ethical nor right.

Soul mates are about finding that inner connection that sort of defies description.  When you have a soul mate connection you just know they are right for your life.  They fit without any adjustment.  

We have more than one, at least I do.  And when we are ready to open to all relationships offering us something, we will find labels such as soul mate are just not that important in the scheme of life.

Few months back I didn't give a crap about relationships, soul mate and all things like that. Then, my mind was free of all these thoughts. Things happened, someone came into my life, she told me she likes me, but as i mentioned i had never thought about relations so I didn't care about what she was feeling and lived my own life. I was rude, so she says. But she mentioned she had a boyfren at the time being. After my refusal she went on to date one of my friend. I believed and still believe i took a prudent decision. But why, now when she is gone far far away, do I feel the urge to be in a relationship, why is the thought of love always in my mind. Why do i all of a sudden feel so lonely? Why do i feel like my heart is burning? Is this regret? Or is it me just being a normal human? I fully know and understand that she was not the kind of girl I would like to be with. Or am I in denial? I am sure of one thing though, if all this was to happen again my answer to her will still be the same even after knowing the mental pressure that i will have to endure afterwards. what is all this going on in my mind? I am so confused.

Sometimes I think i would have been better off right now if i hadn't met her but then again when i do think abt all that has happened, i think she has opened up an unexplored horizon for me to embark upon, to try on new boundaries, to find love. If tomorrow i find my soul mate then the credit goes to her coz she paved my road, and gave me direction for my long journey of life. Past few months has given me new experience and has changed my perspective towards the way i view life, may be for better months to come.

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Reason, Season, Lifetime

People  come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.  
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do  for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,  it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have  come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with  guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally  or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.  
They are there for the reason you need them to be.  

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an  inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to  bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.  Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force  you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need  has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.  
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is  time to move on.

Some  people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has  come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience  of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something  you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable  amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a  season.

LIFETIME  relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must  build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.  
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and  put what you have learned to use in all other relationships  and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but  friendship is clairvoyant.

Read this poem many times and i love it every time i read it. It does help ppl in someway to move on with life.