This has been eating me..:(

I simple dont seem to be able to stick to my daily routine. abhishek my husband is worse than me.... just yesterday we were thinking, we could achieve so much more if we had a daily routine...

how do you manage to have a basic routine?

I would hazzard a guess that you both have a routine at work.  You come in the morning and begin your day with the priority that presents itself.  From there all the mundane get handled.  

Perhaps you feel more like someone with big boots putting out fires than someone who gets things done.  And yet, if you were not there they would rage out of control.

Perhaps your home life is not so bad after all.  There is no magic key to chaos or peace - just doing what feels natural.

Perhaps list the unchangeable like sleep and work as
fixed periods...

Now look at the transiting moon in sextile and trine to
each natal house ( cusp ) for that houses activity .. like Moon
in 6 th house of eating is the main meal of the day and
trine to the 6th house cusp - that would be twice a day -
and possibly sextile.  But try all the aspects of course
for at least one half moon cycle and probably better to
try for each full cycle unless its obviously not working.

Like the ancients who predicted weather - they looked at
a thunder storm here and a sunny day there and then knowing
the in between aspects tried to say a cloudy day would
be this day due to say a Moon trine Sun and then a thunderstorm
for example Uranus sextile Sun. Not that these are the correct
planets and aspects for weather - but just trying to indicate
the logic.

Try with natal charts of both parties, combined natal chart,
and wedding natal chart. The one that works is the one to use :)

hi swetha,

i think to keep stick with the routine sometimes you should take off that routine for a few days... or we will get bored and feel "enough" with that routine... but it just a suggestion ^.^

I think routine should be planning. I you write down on paper what you should do tomorrow,(you may not follow it exactly, but you must write down), it will become energy saver.