How does one come to terms with their situations in life? Isnt it tough and hard and dont you keep going back through the same circle of thoughts???

If we go in a daily routine, do our normal thing on good and bad, then yes our thoughts will also go in circles from good feelings to bad feelings, and maybe the wish for a better life.

If we only tell our mind that we shall not think such "bad thoughts", then it helps for those 5 minutes when you focus on this, but will arise again when the bad situation again occur.

In order to make a change to the thought pattern, we need to change our view on the situation that make us get "lousy" thoughts.

The first thing is to learn is to love ourselves....to find self security.....this way you learn that you aren't the problem...or maybe that you by those and those action make those and those thing to happen, and this you can change.

We can seldom manage to change the behavior of people around us, to our liking, but by understanding why thing happen, we might avoid much of the negative.

It is also a very good idea to not go into an argument, if we know that the person we will argue with, seldom listen to reason anyway.

I recommend Meditation on any problem that bother us.
By thinking it over in a calm and relaxed situation, many thing can be enlighten around the situation, which again will help next time a similar situation come up.

Since it is very hard to change other persons, we must change our self, and the way we think, in order to brake a thought pattern

We can have circle thinking that keeps us 'stuck' and unhappy.  Or we can take a step out of the circle of thoughts and make a brand new road to examine.  Seeing life as an adventure helps us to have the motivation to step out into life whole and well.

When asked what is the purpose of life, a friend offered this:  We are here to give love and take love.  The rest is just the window dressing that allows us the experience.  Stay in Love!

Love does not mean abusing others, nor does it mean to stay and be abused.  Love is kind and caring.  If that is missing, so is love.  Relationships are hard places to learn lessons, but they are where we do our best growth.

You both make so much sense
Where else other than MB could I find such thoughts, ideas and peace of mind.

I understand what you say. But this is such a vicious circle! How does one implement it? I guess I am trying to overcome this in my own way I feel much better once I think and come to terms with the situation and think of ways to handle it.

Does anyone else face such problems?

We can only take one step at a time.  When an idea occurs to handle your own life, take the step.  We often hesitate due to so many reasons of responsibility.  Be brave and enjoy the adventure!