Hi all,

I am so glad that I found this web site. I am very interested in all the sujects here.
This is my first post and I am not sure this is right the right place to poste it.
Here is my problem: About a month ago I started chating with this guy from a dating web site. We had a connection right there in the chat toom , if I can call it connection. What I meant is that I felt I knew this guy, I felt attracted to him right away by the way he was chatting. After about 2 weeks we decided to meet up, we live about 4 hours from each other. So we decided to meet up on a Monday in my city sometime around 10 AM. He SMS-ed me that he couldn't make it because his car was stolen that morning, around 5 AM. He was able to recover the car, but things were stolen from his car, such as laptop, GPS, DC's DVD's. Then we decided to meet up 2 days after that around 9 am. That day I leaft home around 6 because I didn't want my father to know I was going to meet up with someone (I told him that I was going to go to work). When I got in my car the front axle was broke off, I mean I couldn't drive my car. However I had to ask my father to give me  ride to my work so I could meet this guy.
We met later on and we had really good time, like I never had before. Ten we talked about how and when we were going to meet up in the future.
About 2 days ago this guy told me that he had to go to have a surgery, like on Thursday. He's fine , but of course he needs to recover , so we are not going to sea each other soon. We email and phone txt or talk on the phone once in a while. We keep saying that we want to meet soon, but it doesn't happen.
Well I don't belive he lied to me when he said his car was stolen, because he showed me a new GPS he bought after that. My question is: are those signs that would mean that I shouldn't go out with him or what? We met face to face on 4/28 and as today we still couldn't set up another date. I know he's busy, he runs a business and has some other personal obligations, but I thought it was strange that 3 "bad" things happened so we couldn't meet up. I really want to date this guy, I like him a lot and  there was a real connection when we fisrt met.
Thnaks

There aren't too many coincidences in life.  If you looked at them as red flags, you might question your connection.  I got a sense that he was hiding something.  He may be busy in another relationship?

Those signs you recieved could also be symbolic, in which I have yet to gain knowledge on that. Coincidences happen to serve as messages. But the advice I can give is to trust your belly wisdom. Or if you share a similar case with me, a twitch/numbing feeling between the shoulder blades = bad, a numbing/twitching feeling in the tummy = good

At any rate, trust your own instincts in all things.  Do not allow yourself to be swayed from what your body tells you is right.

i'll  say, listen to your  subconcious mind, that voice that tells you what to do, if you feel good about it, that's what you should do, do not over think, do what that voice is telling you, but if you keep thinking that there is a bad reason behind those events, and you keep searching for a bad reason, you will sure find it, and you are not going to like it, but at the end you will be geeting what you were looking for.