What is essential, the most meaningful to you?
You would think they all go hand in hand. If you have one,
then they would all naturally follow.  All are needed and wanted,
but if you had to choose ONE that is vital, critical for your happiness,
that you've noticed sends you into a tizzy, if you DON'T receive or have,.....which would it be?
I am sure there are other requirements, but looking at my immediate
circle of loved ones,  and deciding for myself what I thought they would
choose out of the 4 choices, then ASKING them to choose one for themselves, and one another,  Well, needless to say, we were all
correct about each other.
Very recently I was enlightened by my higher source/s to this fact,
and how I was so wrapped up in my "REQUIREMENT", I couldn't see THEIRS.
I am a little embarrassed that it has taken me this long
to acknowledge or to become aware of this. I know that this
revelation of mine comes in many different forms for everybody,
but for my thick skull, this is how I finally "GOT IT",  
so I thought I would share.

From loved ones, I require nothing.
I give willingly, and they receive.  When they give, I receive.  Somehow, it works beautifully.
If given because of a requirement, then I don't feel a joy with the giving or receiving.

I would rather not expect anything from anyone, especially not Loved ones. But there is 2 things that every person needs from their loved ones, whether they believe they need it or not, they do, everyone does, they are:

1. Acceptance - Accepting you who are without any conditions.

2. Trust - As long as our loved ones trust us, we are strong, both inside & outside. One of my all time favourite quote goes like this "It is more important to be trusted than to be loved" - Anon.

Not trying to change me into someone else is important. Consideration for each other's desires.
Respect for each other.

And I love a good sense of humor and sharp mind!

Donna

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