What do you REQUIRE from loved ones? Love, respect, loyalty, or attention?, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 17 · Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 9:03 am

kgirlsmomma wrote:

It is for you to discern whether or not these friends should be kept as friends. In the meantime, another suggestion would be to say something positive about the person they're gossiping about every time they say something negative. Or say, "Well that is their choice to do so". "Well, if that works for them!" Doing this is another way to 'teach' people how to respect another, while solidifying your own good intentions to no longer gossip or participate in harming behavior.

Great idea. I use "Well, each to their own!"

I'll incorporate your comments into my own situations and to add some variety!

Posts: 141 · Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 9:32 am

Vishwas wrote:

I would rather not expect anything from anyone, especially not Loved ones. But there is 2 things that every person needs from their loved ones, whether they believe they need it or not, they do, everyone does, they are:

1. Acceptance - Accepting you who are without any conditions.

2. Trust - As long as our loved ones trust us, we are strong, both inside & outside. One of my all time favourite quote goes like this "It is more important to be trusted than to be loved" - Anon.

I would agree with what Vishwas has said.
He has said it very well!

Posts: 8526 · Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 6:13 am

expect and need... two different words and yet mean the world!

Posts: 777 · Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 8:36 am

childofazna wrote:

What is essential, the most meaningful to you?
You would think they all go hand in hand. If you have one,
then they would all naturally follow. All are needed and wanted,
but if you had to choose ONE that is vital, critical for your happiness,
that you've noticed sends you into a tizzy, if you DON'T receive or have,.....which would it be?
I am sure there are other requirements, but looking at my immediate
circle of loved ones, and deciding for myself what I thought they would
choose out of the 4 choices, then ASKING them to choose one for themselves, and one another, Well, needless to say, we were all
correct about each other.
Very recently I was enlightened by my higher source/s to this fact,
and how I was so wrapped up in my "REQUIREMENT", I couldn't see THEIRS.
I am a little embarrassed that it has taken me this long
to acknowledge or to become aware of this. I know that this
revelation of mine comes in many different forms for everybody,
but for my thick skull, this is how I finally "GOT IT",
so I thought I would share.

it is both interesting and hard to answer.but according to my opinion, i need all the four from my loved ones.the four are related with each other.if one thing is deleted then the other essential things would not work out.