I thank u all for ur reply to my post TRUE LOVE

I agree with u, true love need not be under contract, really marriages are considered contract only in western parts, But in India we regard it sacred, But ifelt bad, when i see the tendency of divorce is more among Indians now a days. I too believe true love need not be on contract basis,

Love is the only thing, which grows only when u share it with others, unlike money or wealth, for example if we share 100 rs with other person  equally  u will be left with only fifty in ur hand. On the contrary if u share ur love with others, whether known or unknown u will gain more., u may find more no of relationships like brother sister etc and can get more no of friendship by showing ur love on others. This is the basic idiology of shri OSHOJI  which he explains in his ISHA UPANIshad thathva's explanations.

I too agree marriages are   LIFE TIME  agreements but i feel it should remain forever and should not be broken in the middle, , unless and otherwise  under  the inevitable circumstances like seperation due to the death of life partnersIt is not in the hands of partners and it is all at the mercy of GOD.

i thank spirit alkji once again for adding more values to my post giving the explanations of the word true love, the last part will touch anybody who ever breaks such a nice lifetime relationship knowing the true purpose of lifetime relationship

I am certain that lifetime relationship teach u life time lesson, nobody can escape the bad consequences  comiting the mistake knowing its real meaning and its true purpose. I request once again,  only the believers of marriage  not to break the bondage  once they commit them willingly

I do agree true love comes in many forms, I value FRIENDSHIP  MORE PAR and superior than  all  RELATIONship

NO other relationship can match friendship, ANYBODY who cares other person can be called a  friend,but all friends are not called to be life partners

prasanna

I did not write this piece, but it is one of my true inspirations.  Being real in life is very important.  If something isn't working, we fix it.  Relationships are no different.  

A commitment to marriage and all it contains is important.  Sometimes we go into a marriage for all the wrong reasons or impulses.  And sometimes they can and should be lifetime relationships.

I heard in an event yesterday that there was a research done with 100 married couples in the US (?) who've been married for 5 years.
50 of these couples got divorced.
25 of these couples said that they were together because of some interest (money, children, beliefs, etc)
only 25 said that they were happily married and wished to continue living together.

Then the researcher wanted to find out what was their secret.

It turned out that these couples took 2 minutes everyday just to say caring, loving and encouraging words to each other.
Like getting home after work and instead of complaining about the lousy day or the traffic, they would hug and say how happy they were being able to see each other again after a long day apart.

Yes I think couple has forgotten to give their relationship time and be happy together for atleast one moment in a day.I am taking alittle time off to say hi to you all and I love You