Thanks swetha.
Actually I laid my eyes recently in this post from this brasilian group :
http://br.groups.yahoo.com/group/O_Mundo_Holistico/
An old indian described once his internal conflicts: "Inside of me there are 2 dogs - one is cruel and mean, the other is very nice and docile. The two of them are always fighting...". When they asked him which of the 2 dogs would win the fight, the wise indian replied: "The one that I feed"
(Unknowned source)
I just love this story.
So simple, yet so complete.

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