Hello pravin bhai,


thanks for the reply , i will tell her to send it to me , , the problem is that she is in US ,and I am in Australia , after all the problems in my house , and my sister divorce , everything in my house , is distrubed , my parents are old and my mother is so muched worried for my sister, that i also get distrubed.

The problem started SOME WHERE 8-10YEAR before , when my father had suffered a major loss in business , and we were in debts of 40lakhs , but at that time the time was so bad , that my sister was alway hard in case of maariage , and i an biggest idiot , and will never forgive my self for it , was after a girl , we both went around for nearly 5 years , and i wasted time , energy , money , efffort , and my carrer on her , helpped her in all manner , but got nothing in return of my true love , any ways i was insulted badly by her , and her mother , and also given a damiki from her brother , it was like i lost everything , i was a begger , left with nothing . but i carried on for my parents , even my parents knewn about this and they were hurt also. DURING ALL THIS my sister also got divorced, she was not given foood ,and was hit when she reached america , it was so bad that we had no money to fly to my sister nor did we have any money to support my sister, and due to interest all the debts were increasing , had nothing . I toook in a job immeidatly as a hardware engg , as i have done my computer enggineering , from bombay univ, but the salaryy was not enough , then from all this problems , my Mama decided to send me to australia to do my masters , and he paid for my fees ,and sposored me .in this 10 years , we have spoiled relationship with a lot of people , for no fault of our own , had to tell sorrry to people even though we had done nothing wrong , had to keeep quite even when some one did something wrong to us, becuase we were in no position tostand , or say.


after coming to australia , i also suffered alot again , with no job , and did all the small time jobs like waitering , and cleaning while studing , and then after completing studies and getting residencey , i came back to india , to get marrried , but my wife tooo is not so understanding , she has problem with my parents ,and my sister , and u known what we have just got married on 19th may 2005. I am searching a full time job in my area of studies as i have 3 degrees ,

1)diploma in Digitial electronis,
2)Bacholars in Computer Engg
3)Master in information system
4)Oracle certified professionnal

i am still not able to fid a job in my area as they ask for experence , and i have none.


i am so much worried and stressed out becuase of all this that i cannot concetrate on my search , not able to study hard so that i can give an interview


i dont known when will i be settle and have money which will solve a lot of out issues


my birth details

10th march 1974
06:30am (morning)
Bombay


my wife details

9th september 10975
05:30pm(evening
bombay



pls i am sorrry for writing a big long details , but if u can have a look let me known when will i really get a full time job , and will settle in life?? how is our compatibility , and our future together



thanking you


Regards

Prashu