To stand out from a crowd, there must first be a crowd.  We all like to fit in with others.  It is the lessons in self that will do more for our lives than blindly following anyone else.

I dont think there is anything wrong in being popular either...

All of us want to to stand out dont we?

Hehehe...I have followed the discussions and I think we lack 1 thing when we responded to the first post...the definition of what we think with the word popular.

When I gave my post...I thought more about aknowledge, then to be popular as in "star"

To be popular as in "star" is a "hell" and it's only the money and fame that count....then it's up to you what you will pay of yourself to be popular...I hope I would say; thank you...but no...I think here is the saying "money aren't all"  show it's real value.

So when I said "it is what make us gooing" then I think more "aknowledge"  on "good and bad"....that is the most important thing you can give other