hello,

i believe this is a place that ppl find when they need it. it's a very special place.
some come just to ask a question, and then their gone. and i think that's OK. that is where they are in life, searching for answers. we are all in different stages of our spiritual growth. sometimes others get upset by ppl that just ask and then leave.  but what is it about that, that makes u upset?  so many takers, not enough givers? But when the one timers ask a question, does it make you think, and internalize what they are asking, in some way does it not effect you. even if you think someone is wrong, you can still learn from it. so you are growing from this question. so they are giving something back just by asking the question.
 I do believe that everyone that has ever answered a post, does so from a place of caring. not in hopes that if we answer them they will want to stay. i have learned many things here, one thing i learned is there are so many different ways of looking at situations in life, and none of them are wrong, there just different. i have learned to be more open minded, i have learned that on somethings i was wrong. i have learned to listen more, and talk less (I'm sure u guys don't think so)  My point is that we all take and give what is needed.and whatever there are 5 of us or 500. we will learn and grow the way we are suppose to,

i just meant to give a short thanks for the board.  i don't know who put that soap box ther. or how i climbed on it.
 
this place is amazing, and it's the one-timers and the regulars that make it that way. so i give thanks to everyone that has ever contributed to this board. it has made me a better person.    well it's trying to anyway.

blackcat

Well u are a good person blackcat don't worry.

& I have to say thanx to everyone who has appreciated the site here, it was really greatful of u all.

& as spiritalk said, this is a WORK OF LOVE.

& off so many ppl, so it is growing in a big way, & will scale much bigger heights soon.