Well...there is a saying or opinion that goes like this:

What you hate in other people, is what you hate in yourself.

I find it hard to believe that only Virgo males will give you this feeling.

You state you are 17...what a beauteful age...but also a hard...it's when the hormones are building up and gives a lot of "powerfull opinions"

You don't state if you are male...female...if female this might also have the reason that boys start to flirt much more then before and not all are good at it

If we have made up our mind about a thing, we have the tendency to "forget" about those cases that not fit into our opinion, but if they fit, then they  confirm that our opinion was right

I wish you a happy Youth

This cat has some real insite, he knows.

Oh he know, he knows.

That's what worries me, we've got a smart cat.