Well Vishwas I hope you will have many answer to this topic... I will try to give you mine.
Love..hate..everything around us can be summert up in feelings.
It's feelings that makes us glad and it's feelings that make us sad.
Let us say that we are able to controll our feelings, we will no longer feel bad...no way..we shall only be happy.
well, what now....you only have 1 feeling...happy....but happy is a normal feeling....and you will no longer feel "real happiness" which only occure if you also have felt sadness, because you need the whole scala in order to see the difference.
Let's say you are able to suppress love....then after some time another feeling will pop up, and that is the feeling of loneliness.
This feeling can be much harder to live with then the hurt of love, which also many times gives pleasures in the thought.
So I will say....again and again...seek your soulmate...it's seldom you find her on first try
