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I am 21 years old, a libran....I had a crush on this girl who is a Gemini..... from my school days when I was in 7th standard. We studied in the same class for 5 years. After that I left the school and joined engineering. Now, she has come to Bangalore(place where I stay now) and is doing MBA.

She contacted me a month ago. Now, that we have met again, my old has crush reappeared for her again.

She is not that attractive physically. But I dont know why am I drawn towards her. As they say "Love is unconditional"....but it is very hard to imagine her in my life say 10 years from now.

The real problem is I never had the guts to declare my love for her. To be honest I never had the guts to propose any of the gals I have liked. I am damn shy when it comes to proposals........lol.

I have also read about the general characteristics of geminis on this site. And I am really worried about the negative chararcteristics in them....liking cunning, manipulative etc and etc....But still I am attracted to her.

I dont know what should I do?.........Can anyone help me please???

Thank you

Propose to her. Libra & Gemini to get along well (i have read somewhere). & i think it will be good if u get over with it. But say, what ever her answer, u would still like to be friends with her. & give her time to think before answering. & tell her how u feel & all.

But let me warn u know, don't talk about sex when proposing, & if u want her for sex, i suggest u not propose to her at all. & also, if it really is love, u should be happy whatever she decides & be happy in her happiness. Not the other way round. I am no professional consultant about love, but have seen a lot of my friends & juniors make same mistakes & have been able to help them a bit to do it the right way. But it was some years ago.

Now the only thing i will say is propose to her, if u are serious about her, for the rest of ur life & if it isn't about sex. If it is yes to either one of the questions, then dude, u both will suffer in the long run.

thanks man.......but i really dont have the guts to propose her. We are meeting this weekend.....this
weeks seems to be the longest....lol

Well yes that happens, & i will tell u one advise, to propose to her, don't take her to a fancy place or soemthing, she must like u for what u are, not how much money u have, ok? & yes try to stay calm, & yeah listen to what she is saying & speak back properly, don't keep staring off in space or fantasizing.

Ok, there are more things i can say, but won't as i am going on without ur permission, any way said all that so that it may help u in anyway.

yes vishwas...it is difficult....but I am not hurrying. I think I will never propose to her. I have never proposed
to the gals on whom I had a crush. You know..its common to have crushes in one's life.....even I have had a few.....lol.

As, I had said you earlier it is difficult for me to see her in my future. But you know how it is to have a crush on somebody. I am always thinking of the ways to impress her...lol, though these ideas have only remained in my mind. I have never tried them.

I think the biggest problem is she is from a different religion.....so if I really go and propose here and if she
also feels the same for me, then I predict some trouble to continue my relationship with her. I just want to be
more independent.....and see how the things work out. And I am very sure by the time I become independent
she would have married someone else........lol

Anyways, today we are meeting. We have a college fest today....she is coming too.....just trying to relax myself and thinking of which clothes should I wear...lol

byeee.....see you later