No problmeo dude, just make sure u are calm. & yes I have had many crush's too. & even though i really liked those girls, i knew that there would be nonthing between us, as they were far to intelligent & beautiful & would never agree to have a simple & eccentric guy like me. Anyway wish u luck, don't worry, maybe a couple of months later u may feel this was more like infatuation & my personal mantra which i am sahring with u is, even if she or anyother girl doesn't accept u, just think "That either she isn't the girl for u & if she isn't, u will get a better one, or it is just not the right time for u, & u may get her back one day."

*lol*  Boys are so funny  


Just adorable though...  

Thanx Nimisha.  

hi Nimisha!...

thank us .....as we are giving you valuable information. I hope now you know how a guy 'feels' when he falls for you.......lol.

Can you give us more insight about how you gals feel?.......lol

Well, mutahhir, I have to say, it always feels good when a guy falls for you.  Girls pick up on that so much easier than guys seem to, so this girl most likely already knows how you feel.  But it's always much nicer when the guy confirms that with words.    Tell her you like her.  Often.

Of course, it's probably different there, but in the US, we don't particularly go into every relationship thinking it must end in marriage.  That's a lot of pressure to put on a new relationship.  If you like this girl, and she likes you, and you both enjoy each other's company, isn't that reason enough to continue seeing each other?

As far as the attraction factor, someone once told me that you won't date someone you are not attracted to for very long.  Because if you like them, and want to continue to see them, you will discover things about the person that you do find attractive.  

*And I always enjoy getting a look into the male psyche- so beautiful and weird.  Guys are much more complex and thoughtful than they are usually given credit for.   So *lol*  thank you.  


Good luck.