Hi Moonshadow!
I am a gemini Mom with an autistic son. I can relate! I think you guys are looking way too simply at just being
a gemini as a predictor to whether they are good dads. I have a friend who is acutally a "typical" Gemini in many ways.
He's nervous, gets bored very easily, young at heart, loves to flirt etc, but he's an awesome Dad. There are allot of things
in the chart that you would have to look to see what other influences would make a better parent than sun sign alone.
Moonshadow do you happen to know where your moon or venus falls? My Venus is in Cancer, which is very nurturing.
Nice to meet you! Keep being a good dad to that son, they need us and they are our biggest teachers in this life.
D