Hi Alee
Thank you for giving hands.. OK let's see
you are born in RAT YEAR with YANG Water element. However, your Self Element itself is
WEAK METAL. Self Element basically tells us what your are capable of, and what fields you are suitable to in your career path and business.
You need to strengthen your METAL element to bring balance to your Ba Zi chart, and thus bring harmony in life. To strengthen it, you need to enhance
EARTH as well as
METAL element itself.
To increase your Earth element, the best way is to put some small, fancy quarry stones on your working desk. However, if this method is inapplicable (especially if you are working in offices where putting/showing personal belongings is prohibited), you can still carry with you an earth-brown gemstone. You can also pick brown colour for your daily suits. This is also represent Earth.
Meanwhile, to improve your Metal element, you can put on some jewelries.
Another thing that I noticed is, you also lack of
WOOD element. It is also missing from your chart.
It seems you find hard time in term of your finance. No matter how much you earn, there always something happens that make it flow out.
by inviting this WOOD element, your financial problem is also solve, you will get more luck in this term
And to invite WOOD element, the best way is to put a small bamboo plant on your working desk. However, if this method doesn't suit either (for office strict regulation, may be), you can wear green clothes more often, since green represents WOOD element.
Your life began when you turn around 7 years old. During this time , you and your family travel out of your hometown and resided in a new place. This is also where your journey began.
You are about to leave a long-run "lucky phase" which starts when you turn 27. During these 15 years (until you reach early 40s) you will enjoy great benefits from whatever you have done. Though you are having big problem with your finance, but it seems, you are still earning something. This is due to the Goddess of Fortune that is with you during this time.
When you turn late 40s, there are series of unpleasant incidents that will come to your life. They will leave deep remarks in your life.
About your family cycle :
You love your wife very much and you gives full support to her. Though both of you sometimes have clash of ideas/thoughts, but you'll give up and let her in her her way. You don't really have good terms with your dad. You both can go along in certain ways, but mostly you two are clashing ideas, and being cold to one another. You love your mom very much. Likewise what you do to your wife, you also gives full support to your mom. Hy, if you plan to have more than 1 child in the future, you will have boys then
That' all I can read. my great apologize for anything that doesn't match your real case. That's all that I get so far.

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