You 'read' and say such things then dare to add such a disclaimer? Why upset someone so much and then apologize. Words can make reality, intent and thought is chi and tumbles on!  Please think about how you word things before you ever try and attempt to 'read' anyone again!

Alee.... ignore the reading, it is what you make of it, you WILL be fine and have a wonderful life

Well, Ba Zi, alike other sorts of future readings are human interpretations, which mean there will not be 100% accurate. Once again, this is just a mean to see "the global picture" of someone's future. The reality is still a mistery though.

The reason I put that disclaimer, is just a reminder that whatever I predict is merely a "global picture" only, which might turn to be false. However, I still try my best to get as accurate as I can.

When we are ready to hear about our future, we aren't supposed to live that in fear nor affraid. Geez! It's completely wrong if we think we should ignore whatever the bad future will be.

If we know there are certain obstacles which lay upon us in the near future, wouldn't it be nice to be prepared in advance. If we know the years ahead are full of misfortunes, we should reduce our business deals in those particular years.

I hope you understand this basic concept and the reason why we are curious to reveal our future.

It might also show the danger to start to predict, when one haven't the full knowledge in the trade, and have the belief, that there is no options.

If you all agree that you are nothing but a robot, then a reading about doom is good...because a robots path is known...so also its destiny.

If you believe you are a human, with some sort of free will, then the above statement is crap, and that in itself start to create the incident predicted.
When we saw a thought, then this thought will be filed in our brain, and might slowly create havoc after some years.

We humans is outfitted with something called "Free will"....not the will to do everything...not the will to achieve everything...BUT the will to TRY, and to change thing inside our limitations.
This open up for choices...everything has a choice, except the final one.
So if you see hardship in a persons 40-50, then a lot of people experience it, (just like everything else you stated in your reading) and there is always options to smooth it out, IF we believe in ourselves.

It is we as humans who create the finish path....if we listen to ourselves, and don't let other control our way.(inside the laws that is )

Good luck and have a rich period in that decade.

thanks for your concern guys, i have been "dabbling" with bazi thou my knowledge is very limited. based on wat i know is the interaction of yin-yang and the 5 elements one makes observations and predictions.

i just wanted to know the logic behind that statement.

up till now i still cannot determine if fire element is favourable/unfavourable for me, that is why i asked that question.

Hi again Alee

Since your Self Element is WEAK METAL (as I mentioned earlier), Fire is definitely 1 of your <U>unfavorable</U> elements, alog with Water. Fire destroys Metal. Contrary, what we need is elements that build up and strengthen your Metal elements.

I hope this answers your question