hi all, ive just been reading all the postings and thought i might add my 2 cents worth... i've been interested in feng shui for a good 6-7 years now but have only just started looking into it in-depth. I have found a really good UK site
http://www.fengshuiweb.co.uk. Its a good site for beginners and explains alot, it does have its online store but the author does also explain how to use home made cures such as round metal weights (apparently the best type of metal cure) and salt water cures (i used our old New Zealand copper coins and they worked).
I refer to this site every month for the monthly updates, have calculated our gua numbers have learnt about the flying stars and animal predictions and have learnt how to take a proper compass reading and how to place the bagua map over the map of our home to get our directions etc, i believe in feng shui, i believe in energy, and i believe that the changes i am making are for the better, positive thoughts equals positive energy i think.
When things in my life are a bit tough or im a bit down, i dont get worked up over the cures not working or that something is not in the right place instead i leave the cures where they are and place an enhancer in a specific location, for example, i might put a colourful pot plant in the middle of my dining table which is just inside my front door and for me it brightens the dining room and i see it every time i walk passed it, i also light incese sticks just outside my front door so that the nice smelling aroma flows thru the house and because i have a door off the dining room which leads into my kitchen area which then flows to the back door i make sure to keep this door closed so that the chi has to flow thru the rest of the house and not take a short cut thru the kitchen. I have found the outside incese sticks smell better then the inside ones, dont no why that is.
I make sure that my front door is always clear of clutter, shoes etc and is clean, i have placed alot of bright blooming pot plants just outside of it to form a pathway so that visitors no that this is the front door as it is easy for them to mistakingly walk to the back door. Pot plants are good feng sui enhancers as they can be moved around and they are living. Silk flowers apparently are better than cut or dried flowers as these are seen as dead, i have grown many of my pot plants from seeds (.99c a pkt) and i get alot of joy out of watching them grow and my children love helping to water and care for them, this i believe is more positive chi flowing around us.
I had some single photos of dead family members on only 1 of my living room walls, i removed these pictures and changed them to show the same dead family member but in a happy environment with other people e.g my dad with family members at my son's birthday with a big smile on his face, my spirit is lifted now every time i see this happy photo, i am prompted to remember other happy times with him, i have placed all of these new pictures in the family area of my living room and now every one who comes to visit always comment's on how good they look and they too start to reminis about happier times as opposed to sitting on my couch staring at my lonely dad and feeling sad because he's left us.
These few suggestions are part of my feng shui journey, i am learning new things every day, i now do alot of changes according to my own intuition - gut feeling, if it feels wright then do it, i watch for signs and if anything negative happens i remove my last enhancer(s) and place it/them somewhere else, 8 out of 10 times the situation calms down, gets sorted quickly or just goes away. I cant 100% say that this is feng shui happening but i do no that because of feng shui my house has been de-cluttered, is kept nice and tidy and im more aware of who and what surrounds me....now thats gotta be good for anyone.
Happy feng shui-ing from me - Aio