Came back to edit this. As I have come to the conclussion that sometimes my love is a stuborn mule.  He does like things that have crowds, just not what I like.  He says he doesn't like people, but will talk your ear off.  He makes alot of people laugh.  My enigma, which has me hooked. That is why I felt so much confussion in this post.  How can one not like crowds but go to places where there is lots of people and have fun?  And then the next day say no I do not like those social situations.   Men are strange creatures.  But I love them!!!  

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