My son had sex at 13 and loosing interst in studies? How to get him back..

eek! That's terrible. I know I'm not a parent but I can give you plenty of advice about what I would want my parents to say to me if I ever did that.

Sit down and talk to him about this issue. Ask him questions about why he is going down hill in school. Try to be his friend, he is going through a hard time and he is trying to understand who he is and he is going through puberty so be careful on this subject. If he tries to change the subject bring it back and make him listen to you. Have an open mind and do not yell, yelling only makes the situation worse.

According to your age, that would mean you fathered a child at 12?

I never said that i was a parent
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And I'm not a boy i'm a girl!

Dreamer, not everything is about you. I am speaking about added_sugar who made the original post.