i have a another recipe

remember what attracted your partner to you in the 1st place
keep using those same methods to keep you partner interested
always have conversation about your relationship with your partner ( NOT others, help to get over insecurities such a jealousy)
keep being attentive (it helps to improve your relationship and have more growth)
know yourself (if you dont know yourself you wouldn't be able to have a good relationship)
love yourself
be supportive
be understanding
HAVE love for your partner (to fall would come across as less attractive and therefore make your relationship less interesting)

Very good post , only wish my wife would see it , read it and start working on it   ...

Wonderful post.  
Some more ingredients:
- start every day with loving thoughts towards each other
- do not talk about your problems or disagreements with others (only the two of you can solve it anyway)
- give up trying to be "right", it does not matter anyway
- take every day with each other as a gift for you never know when it could end
- please each other, respect each other, and yourselves
- do not let the kids come before him/her
- give a lot of hugs and kisses
- say thank you for things the other does for you
- don't be afraid to be vulnerable
- be happy to see each other every time
- don't sweat the small stuff
- remember we are all unperfect
- love, love and more love

We have had our share of crisis this first year of marriage but we are still together because i simalar rules we live by it work, aand helps to remember often just why you fell in  love in the first place...and love long in life its worth the journey....Mysticalravenwind