Hi, Vishwas!

I have an analysis for you:

The good guy and bad guy are aspects of yourself; so what you first see is that you think the "good guy" in you is being "shot down" by the bad - that your good aspects are being "killed" or outweighed by bad aspects. Or that they were at some particular time.

Not to give up, you go back to before he was killed, joining with other "good guys" - either he gets help from friends, or you see yourself multiplying these good aspects by making "him" into many. What he or they need to do is to go to get a girl who has been kidnapped.

I think this is a girl who has left your life against your wishes. You see this as her being kidnapped as a way of implying a wrongness in the separation, but which is not her fault. As if circumstances beyond your control or hers have taken her away. But after much effort to try to "kill the bad guys", resolve the reasons for her absence, the situation still exists.

I think the black woman may represent all women; the orange cloud represents their way of thinking which you can not fully perceive (understand). It takes her away, though you try to "fly" with her.

You then go to communicate with various people to get their help from different viewpoints, but what they are saying is confusing and is no help, as they try to impose their differing views; some seem to have something useful to say, then it turns out to be illusion. They turn out not to have anything relevant to give you (only the usual "food and drink").

So you have to go to new "realms" to solve your problem - "learn to fly a plane" so you can take your own self to where the answers are, but you are not sure of your ability to do this (you have to test it first). I think this is you trying to access the higher parts of yourself (reach those previous lives?) for the knowledge you require; but you do not manage it successfully, because when you try to land you find a "sea" of emotion. So you can fly to where the knowledge is, but you cannot bring what you learned back down here to apply it, because of the overwhelming emotion preventing it. You try to fly again, to try again to find what you require, but can't, though you try and try.

Then another girl comes along and tells you to leave it. The house that is not your house is the new "mindset" or "inner viewpoint" she leads you to. Your family are there (this girl will join your family?). Kids are happiness & joy of family, and the future of family life for you. The girl comes to be with you and you are happy.

(Why does your mother scowl? Was she very fond of the one who left your life, or does she scowl because she is losing her place as the most important woman in your life to this new girl?)

You can not tell your mother who she is, because you do not know ... yet.

Summary:  You are telling yourself that, despite your best efforts, the one who has gone can not be brought to return to you. But she is not "the one". It is one who has not yet entered your life ...

Ok this dream is more than a year old, but I still remember it.

There was no girl ever in my life, Never had a girlfriend, neither do I till now, but maybe in the future, but I think she will be the one who I will marry. So I don't know who this is, (Maybe my sister, we have kinda lost the sibling love & affection over the years & just fought & fought, & we both are trying to work out our differences now. Afterall life is sort or long, we shouldn't waste it by fughting with others, especially not loved ones.), but I saw this girl as some small medium height girl (teenager), very fair, slim, maybe causcasian or asain, had black hair. None of these matchs anyone I know.

I have this feeling too now that maybe that good guy & that bad guy were me itself, but I have never meant to do anything bad to anyone, have many times joked (even sarcastically) that I am a bad person, or evil person. But I am not. Presently going through a Identity crisis, like part of me says I am bad & the other part says I am good. & almost each & every person I meet tell me I am a good guy, but I fid it diffcult to trust that one single point.

Since I didn't have any girl in the past, my mom doesn't like anyone in context to me (or who knows if she had some girl in mind) but my parents like everyother parent in my country believe in arranged amrriage, (i.e., the parents search & select the Groom/Bride, either directly or indirectly & select the bride/groom for their son/daughter). Well anyway, I will marry the one whom I want to, that is, arranged or love, both me & the person have to love each other & want to live together.  I don't think my mom is insecure to feel threatened by the advant of another woman into my life.

But this other woman, I remember had long hair & it was kinda brown in colour, kinda reddish brown. I had no one in my life around that time. & In the dream I was just sitting with this girl & holding onto her.

Ok after I posted this dream here on this site, which was April 2006, I have had a couple of dreams, & I think it was the second girl in this 2 dreams, but still I didn't see her face. In both dreams I was just sitting with the girl.

In the one of them, we both were in a house (home) & we both were sitting on the couch which is in front of a fireplace & we both are enjoying the warmth from the fireplace. I have my right arm around her & she is reading a book & I use my left hand to push a few stray strands of her beautiful long reddish brown hair behind her ear.

In a second one the same girl & I are sitting together in a simialr way but outdoors, I don't rememebr garden or beach, but definetly outdoors & in the warmth of the sun.

Now I  don't know anything.

Tish u think that person has entered my life??

Marco I will catch u online later today & I am not leaving u till u explain all those OMG's to me.

& Tish will u be online in another 2 hours 15 mins on msn?? I will talk to u there.

 It is possible, or it might just be your continuing recognition that she is down here, and coming closer.

But: I think, don't expect her to look like the one you are seeing! I find people in dreams sometimes look like themselves, and other times look completely different, and as this may be one you haven't met yet, the way she looks may be only your current interpretation of her. Besides, if you have met in other lifetimes, she will have looked different at different times. You are more likely to recognise her by looking in her eyes ...

I probably will be. I've got no work to go to (it's gone so quiet!), so I'm just sitting here, whiling away the time ... (playing a game, but I'm not telling you what game as it's SO sad ...!).